Dealing with life adjustments and transitions

29 Septembers

Life is filled with adjustments! On this put up, I’m going to debate how change is inevitable, however how to deal with it. For me, September is all the time an fascinating month as it may be stuffed with adjustments, some good and a few undesired. Between the altering of seasons and the climate, the return to high school, and uncertainties of life within the pandemic, this September like many others held each pleased and somber occasions. This September has been stuffed with highs and lows. I’ve had many pleased moments and obtained plenty of dangerous information all on the identical time. The curler coaster of highs and lows has even rolled over to October.

Among the highlights of this season have been main my church choir in opening for Kierra Sheard-Kelly (my favourite) in live performance, celebrating my 29th birthday on the melting pot, going to see the Lion King on Broadway (WOW!), and having the perfect engagement occasion I might ask for. I imply the choir actually ministered in live performance, my birthday dinner was an expertise, the Lion King was every little thing I might’ve imagined and a few, and my engagement occasion was an evening of positivity and love. To not point out, I bought issues again on monitor to get again into faculty this upcoming semester. All and all these are some fairly superb issues to occur in only one month, however in-between all that has been some illness, disappointment, and somber occasions.

My Wrestle

I’ve had relations coping with sickness, lack of family members, and information of uncertainty about what the close to future holds. Many occasions this season I’ve fluctuated between emotions of victory and defeat; between being nonetheless and trusting God and fixing it myself as a result of he’s not shifting quick sufficient. Nonetheless, anytime I entertain the concept of attempting to make things better out of my management or worrying about issues I can’t repair, God jogs my memory of my job as a believer and extra importantly as His little one.

Time and again he has jogged my memory to dwell for at this time solely and keep targeted on the duties at hand. Due to this I’ve conditioned myself to benefit from the good issues which might be taking place within the second, as a substitute of being in that second worrying about my troubles. No matter duties are usually not full, payments not paid, or every other stressor won’t be mounted by my worrying or creating of busy work to repair it. So because of this, I’ve just a few ideas/recommendation I’d wish to share on how I’m shifting, dwelling, and having fun with in honor of my 29th 12 months of life.


  1. I perceive that my path has already been laid out for me by my creator. I can both relaxation in His will and take the straightforward method out or I can create hurdles and detours for myself that lengthen the method. God will get me to the trail I’m destined to be on it doesn’t matter what selections I make. The tip outcomes gained’t change as a result of I make selections of my very own volition. As a result of if my coronary heart is to dwell for him, in some unspecified time in the future I’ll give up my will for His and He could have free reign to place me precisely the place I should be once I should be there. If I stand on His promise that He is aware of the plans He has for me that they’re good and never of evil, I can dwell my life to the fullest. (Jeremiah 29:11)


  1. I rob myself of peace once I select to not belief God. Merely put, God reminds us that if we simply can belief Him sufficient to BE, and let Him be who he says He’s, we will have peace that surpasses understanding. He says “I AM that I AM.” This implies He will likely be no matter you want Him to be. Peace doesn’t come from all issues in our life being properly, however it comes from God above who may give you peace in no matter circumstance you’re dealing with. When storms occur in your life, peace is promised to you… when you can simply belief God and hold your thoughts stayed on Him.


  1. I’ve discovered to remain targeted. Distractions cease productiveness. When I’m targeted on a couple of factor at a time, every little thing will get uncared for. Compartmentalizing has aided me in specializing in the fitting issues on the proper time. If I’m targeted on my objective God has given me to do, every little thing else will fall into place.


  1. I’m caring for me. Studying to handle my private wants has served me properly. If you’re not caring for you, then you possibly can’t assist handle anybody else. Go full that exercise. Take that nap. Go to that remedy session. Eat that ice-cream cone. No matter it’s that serves you, DO IT!


  1. Use what you bought! This is essential. I’ve come to appreciate I’ll by no means be like anybody else and I could not have what qualities others possess, however I’ve greater than sufficient to do what I’m purposed to do. After I supply what I’ve again to God, he can multiply that.

My Conclusion

In closing, CHILL OUT! Life has sufficient issues with out including to it. Jesus can take the wheel and I’ll simply be a passenger within the automobile. As a result of when all is alleged and finished and life has come to an finish, not even the most important of obstacles, or the best of mountains will matter. Stay a life you may be pleased with. In my 29 years of dwelling I’ve by no means been forsaken or begging bread. Okay!!! God has all the time taken care of me and that can stay true till the day I’m gone. It’s true for me and its true for you too… it doesn’t matter what you’re dealing with. Preserve your head up and LIVE!

Take a look at this message of encouragement I’ve been listening to.

Additionally take a second to learn my final put up. It should encourage you.

I am Christian Nnakuzierem Alozie (Kris Kuzie Alozie). A native of Eziama Nneato in Umunneochi LGA, Abia State, Nigeria. I am an inspirational writer and a motivational speaker. And above all, a lover of charity.

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